Tuesday, November 3, 2026

We are still alive (and back!)

 First off, I apologize for the long absence. It's been a crazy couple 18 months here. In summary:


• Jim and I moved his mom from Minnesota to Wisconsin into a memory care facility this summer. Within a month of her arrival, she fell and broke her hip, requiring extensive surgery and a stay in rehab. Unfortunately, the trauma has accelerated her decline. We don't know if she'll walk again long term. It's impossible to explain things to a dementia patient, and unfortunately, she has fallen twice already. We are grateful she is less than two miles from our house, and can visit and keep tabs on her care. 

This is a cake I made to celebrate her 88th birthday in September. She really liked it.

brown cat cake

• My dad fell and broke his hip and femur in early July, then a few months later, the rod in his hip broke, requiring a second surgery in Milwaukee. There were days I drove from one hospital or rehab center (for mother-in-law) to another for my dad. He is healing (again) back home, but as an 80 year old, it's a long road ahead. I've spent a number of weekends driving to their house (2.5 hour drive) to help with chores.

• In May 2024, my employer sold our brands to another company. It hasn't gone well, and I spent 20 months looking for a new job. If any of you have tried to search for a job in 2026, you likely know how difficult and disparaging it can be. However, by the time you read this, I will have given notice to my employer. I've found a new position in a different industry, and I'm excited about it. It's very close to home and will allow two days working from home, so I can still be with the kitties.

Speaking of the kitties. . .here are updates:

• Jules is now two years old, and a total mama's boy. He's quite a big personality in a wobbly body (he has cerebellum hyperplasia). He likes to play with Ringo, and will sometimes bother Lucy, but Lucy has figured out she can easily outrun him.

tabby cat looking at camera

• Lucy and Ringo are both 12 and, overall, doing well. Lucy had lost some weight, but her bloodwork and urine sample were clear. I've started giving her wet kitten food, and she's gained a bit of weight, so I cross my fingers and hope it continues. They love to cuddle together in our ancient wicker cat bed.

two cats in a basket


Saturday, October 31, 2026

Happy Halloween!

 I am back! Look for a catch-up post on Tuesday. In the meantime, please enjoy this year's Halloween pumpkin, and of course, Jules assisting me while carving. The pattern is called "Kitty Cauldron."

carved pumpkin


cat next to pumpkin
Mom, I don't get what you're doing here.

Tuesday, February 25, 2025

Look at this cute face

 Jules is doing well. He loves playing, his brother Ringo, and is curious about Lucy but she keeps him at arm's length for now.

tabby kitten looking at camera

 

Friday, February 21, 2025

R is for Ringo

 I noticed Ringo was sitting next to the letter R I have in my office.

black and white cat in the sunbeam


 

black and white cat next to a metal letter R

Monday, February 10, 2025

Turned around and growing like crazy!

 Jules has turned the corner and is doing great! His fecal sample was normal and while his stools are still a little softer than I'd like, they have improved a lot since a week ago. We'll continue giving probiotics for a while, given that he recently was on antibiotics. He's eating like crazy and is back to gaining weight.

He's enamored with both Lucy and Ringo, but especially Ringo. Ringo has been so patient and good with Jules, and this morning, he let Jules tackle him and they wrestled a little bit!

 

two cats wrestling on a carpet with toys around them

We are still alive (and back!)

 First off, I apologize for the long absence. It's been a crazy couple 18 months here. In summary: • Jim and I moved his mom from Minnes...